Feeding your baby seems like it should be simple, right? But if you’re like many new moms we meet at Ready Nest Counseling, you’ve already realized: feeding your baby can quickly become one of the most emotional, overwhelming parts of early motherhood.

Birth is often imagined as a beautiful, life-changing moment—the beginning of a new chapter filled with joy, connection, and celebration. But for many mothers, that story doesn’t unfold the way they had hoped. And when the experience of giving birth leaves emotional scars instead of sweet memories, it’s called birth trauma—and it’s more common than we talk about.

One of the most common questions couples bring to counseling is: “Should we have another baby?” It sounds simple, but it’s often wrapped in a complex web of emotions, expectations, and external pressures. This question can spark everything from quiet reflection to deep uncertainty—and that’s totally normal.